Dr. Douglas Samuel Rait, PH.D.

The bio on his website seems so impressive with all his achievements and awards as well as titles and  published works.  I am admittedly a fix-er-upper of a spouse who could use some work.  We both could use some TLC to get back on track. 

We saw him once per week for ore than a year. My spouse and I wound leave  almost every appt nit picky, frustrated and angry at each other. Unfortunately that is NOT how we arrived.  
I felt he was overly difficult with me vs always supporting  my spouse with everything. I though maybe it was me, so I made a test situation where he already ruled me to be out of line. Reproduced the same situation exactly except roles reversed. Guess who was bad person again?
The inequality I felt caused me to lose all respect for him and the process he was peddling.  I observed my marriage deteriorate each week. 
I had to quit to stop the weekly damage. When I inquired if he could help up learn some tools to foster better communication toward eachother, I was told to find someone else for that since he wasn't going to waste his time.  Funny thing is he started something along those lines when we first met.  I was amazed. A patient asks for some help and the doctor says its a waste of his time? Don't we as a couple get an opinion on our counseling treatment or preferences?